21 posts tagged with "lifestyle"

A strong title, and it partially reflects how I feel. Some time ago, I wrote that I’m not a transgender person, that I don’t want to transition. But life decided to write a different script, despite my best efforts to push away something that had been inside me for a long time.

It might seem that being in the environment of crossdressers (genderfluid) and transgender people, I would encounter very similar individuals, due to the nature or style of dressing. Nothing could be further from the truth; everyone is different, sometimes we vary greatly, and the only thing that connects us is the desire to express our feminine element.

One of the hardest things in life, yet one of the most important, is to accept yourself. The way we look, the body we possess, the illnesses we have, the family we were born into. Many of these things we cannot change and must come to terms with.

It's the beginning of February, and I have already achieved one of my goals for this year, which is sewing my first skirt. I am very pleased with the outcome and feel a great sense of satisfaction that I succeeded. Recently, even my wife wore it to work and received several compliments. However, not everything turned out perfectly...

The penultimate day of 2023 will be remembered for a long time. The first visit en femme to the hairdresser and the first meeting with parents in a more beautiful version. And a walk in the woods in a skirt. A very successful end to the year.

I understand the world around me much better now. Many men are unaware of what it means to be a woman in today's society. I, too, haven't explored all aspects, in fact, most of them remain unknown to me. But there are a few things that have given me a broader perspective.

I am overjoyed because I managed to do my first cosplay ever, entirely on my own. Additionally, it served as a test for our little home photo studio. My wife took on the role of a photographer for the first time, and I believe she captured excellent photos, truly amazing in my opinion!

Did I already mention that I've had a lot of photo shoots lately? There was another one in January. That is, the third one in a year. And I'm very happy with it.

Some time ago I wrote in an article that I would like to have a photo shoot. In a previous post you could read that I succeeded in fulfilling this dream, but I wasn't quite satisfied with the results. Fortunately, a few months later, an opportunity came along that I couldn't pass up.

Dreams come true. Sometimes they come by themselves, but more often you have to make an effort for them. However, it is not worth waiting, because it can take a lifetime before something nice comes along. You should do similar things, as I did last year.

A story about how I could not find myself a suitable outfit for a New Year's Eve and how my dear wife gave me a helpful hand.

Sometimes I wonder what an ideal world would look like in my eyes. Is it a utopian vision? I think it is. Can we aspire to it? In my opinion, we even should.

Shopping for clothes or shoes, which society believes are reserved only for women, is not easy for the man. Fortunately, we have the Internet and parcel machines, which previous generations could only dream about. What does it look like with shopping for me? And what was it like in the past?

Can a man be the proverbial housewife? To take care of things that society has reserved for women? Sure he can! Is it well-received among people? Probably not yet, because after all, it loses its "masculinity," an image expected by most. But I hope that it will change someday, and I'm going to help with that a bit.

My life is changing. I perceive myself differently, I have more acceptance for my person. However, I still have confusion in my head, not everything is so simple and clear as one would like it to be. Human psyche is very complicated.

The recent time in my life has been a real rollercoaster. But everything is going in the right direction thankfully. And I'm becoming more adventurous and accepting of myself more. Also I've started walking in heeled shoes as a man. And I like it very much.

I've been thinking more and more lately about what it means to be a real man in today's world. It seems to me that the concept has lost a lot of meaning when we look at it from a broader perspective.

Probably you often never say never phrase. However, in my case, it is something I intend to stick to for the rest of my life. Why? Probably because I'm not a transgender person, but simply a crossdresser (or at least I think I am).

Many men dressing as women ask themselves this question. Can I give it up? Can I live without it? Will I resist this temptation? In my experience, the answer is, fortunately or not, one: no. I will try to explain why this is the case with my own example.

Life through the eyes of a transvestite/crossdresser is different from that of a common, stereotypical man. At least that's what I think, because I can't get into everyone's head and look into their thoughts. I will try to describe what it looks like to look at the world of a male in today's world and compare it with my own.

Why am I crossdressing? Why do I like to put on women's clothes and underwear? Why do I enjoy putting on make-up? And why is walking in heeled shoes so interesting?